非诚勿扰有个男嘉宾的VCR说

人的一生要找到四个人

自己

最爱你的人

你最爱的人

和陪你走完一生的人

他希望可以找到三合为一的人

可我说

应该要找个四合为一的人

一个了解你就像你了解你自己一样

你是ta的最爱

ta是你的最爱

你们想一起走完一生的人

会找到这样的人

只要你相信

=)

忍得一时寂寞  迎得来美丽邂逅

宁可高傲到发霉  也不愿滥情到悲剧

#宁缺勿滥

有些东西 你可以做到

因为看了一套戏而写的一篇

因为不是想说戏的坏话故不写戏名了lol

 说的是对里头的人物的感想

也许所有的人的出现是为了让你找到你最爱的人是谁

但这一切 对你值得

他们呢?

他们都是人 一个个体

就因为你对自己的不确定

而跟着你团团转

留下令人心酸的故事

拜托你求求你好心点

还没放下一个人就不要去招惹另外一个人

不要说是他们来招惹你

你的态度呢?

态度有在就不会有多多故事

公平

绝对是你自己可以坚持的原则

对他人不公平的事

不做

同时知道方法避免

什么时候才可以接受新的对象?怎样对他们才会公平?

到你真正真正放下你之前那一个

不是你努力忘掉前任就可以

而是你把对ta的感情整理得够清楚了

你跟ta见面不会有别的感觉了

够到!

就算ta回来选你你也不会选ta了

这样 才会

对你公平

对你之前的公平

对你未来的公平

他们不应该要承受任何因为你的过去没整理好带来的伤害

一个人给你完整的爱

如果你给不回

那就一点都不要给

就当朋友 没有暧昧

选你所爱

爱你所选

会后悔就不要选!

让自己沉淀也好 孤单也罢

至少让自己的决定没有冲动 没有草率

选了  就没有后悔

对你自己的每个选择负责

对你自己负责
自己选择的路 跪着也要走完!

重整

FACEBOOK

Done deleting almost...I think nearly 100 people in facebook ba, haha

I deleted the people I don't know, maybe never appear in the sight also

I keep those at least I know who they are, even though only have one sight in school

Yea if we actually do know each other but i had unfriend you

Maybe you are inactive or too few detail in your profile

Maybe I just simply forget who you are, haha

If like that really sorry about that

Sure you can add me one more time if you like :p

Maybe people will say, this is facebook, what for?

Yea but this is my facebook, my social place, my life

I decide what form I want it to be

In future there is more and more people will join your life

So I am not going to keep those people I don't even know who they are

I don't need to get news from this way

If I need any news, I can go to buy for a newspaper :p

Maybe I am little bit too strict

Yea but this is me

Exactly me

Goh Zhi Yun

No other body else

TWITTER

Okay here is my private site
I can tweet EVERYTHING
So it is not going to open to EVERYONE
haha

I want to say something to my pre-followers
Most of you got favourite my things also,some even can say very frequent
I am really sorry that I chose this way
And really appreciate you guys had accompanied me for such long time
Really really paiseh :(
To be fair, I also unfollow you guys
Sorry to make you guys lose one follower also haha
I will follow you all in a different way kay?haha
Hope you guys can understand :(

And other friends, if you feel you are close enough with me
If you like, you can come to follow me
But the decision still on me, need to say it first, sorry :p
If I no approve you, don't be sad
It's not your problem, it's mine
I'm just can't get through some part of myself, haha
When I feel we are closer in future
Then sure I will approve you
That's all :)


Hmm going to open
Instagram
Maybe as my life's moment recording album haha
And will welcome the friends :D

Snapchat
Someone had recommended to me long time before, haha
Till now haven't open yet :p
Coming soon hehe



人生 是需要整理的
=)

Bless them