It's okay to look back at the past,

just don't STARE.

And

Trust the timing of everything.

Just because it's not happening right now doesn't mean it never will.

=D

----copyyyy

Promise Me One Thing : That You’ll Be Here

---words from the links below :

http://thoughtcatalog.com/marisa-donnelly/2016/07/promise-me-one-thing-that-youll-be-here/

By Marisa Donnelly

I don’t need an expensive house or pretty jewelry.

 I don’t need date nights every Friday or good morning texts as soon as you wake up. 

I don’t need every second of your time or to be the center of your universe.

I just want you to promise me you’ll be here.

Please be here for the good: 

For the nights of laughter, for the mornings rolling over in bed just to kiss each other once more before falling asleep. 

For the lazy Saturday afternoons, feet up on the couch and snacks all over the coffee table.
For the vacations and the work nights, sharing a plate of spaghetti with one fork.

Please promise me that you will be here, present in my life.

Please be here for the bad: 

For when I can’t pull myself out of bed in the morning, for when my eyelids are heavy from fallen tears.

 For the days where I can’t seem to make sense of my words or when my heart is aching from the loss of someone I love.

 For the nights that aren’t easy, when we fight and slam doors and retreat to opposite corners of the house and can’t find a way to understand what’s on each other’s mind.

Please promise me that you’ll still be here, even when our road gets tough.

I don’t need you to be perfect.

 I don’t need you to always say the right thing or never get mad. 

I don’t need you to follow a certain set of rules or always be the one to apologize first. 

I don’t need you to treat me like I’m fragile or turn to someone else when I get on your nerves.

 I don’t need you to try to be anything other than who you are.

I just need you here.

I need to know that when I give you my heart, you won’t run. 

That when I tell you I’m falling in love with you, you’ll pull me closer, not push me away. 

I promise I will treat you right and stand by you and for you, 

if you just promise me this one thing : that you won’t leave.

I need to know that you’ll talk to me when you’re upset,

 that you’ll lean on me when you’re feeling lost,

 that we’ll be each other’s backbones through this messy thing called life.

Please promise to be the last voice I hear before falling asleep and 

the one I wake up to in the morning. 

Please promise that even if our paths lead us in two different directions 

that we’ll find our way back to one another, 

that we’ll somehow make it work.

Please promise to love me, even when I seem unlovable.

Because I will do the same for you, a thousand times over.

I promise.

Can you?

我要做一个这样的女子

Every girl should spend some times to read this article <3

http://www.aiheaven.com/3/35508/2015%E6%88%91%E8%A6%81%E5%81%9A%E4%B8%80%E5%80%8B%E6%BA%AB%E6%9A%96%E6%98%8E%E5%AA%9A%E7%9A%84%E5%A5%B3%E4%BA%BA.html

*The following is copied from the website
please click the link for a clearer version

Title : 2015, 我要做一个温暖明媚的女人!

我会做一个这样的女子

=)

♡I love short hair♡

I had screenshot the content of the website
 But do click the link for the clearer version :)
http://outfithaven.com/benefits-short-hair/

Who said that a girl cut her hair short because of lovelorn?

See how beautiful they are <3

So here are the reasons why girls should cut their hair short

Totally agree with them (Y)!

#1

#2

#3

#4

#5

#6

#7

 

之前剪过的两次短发都是失败的

可就偏不信我不适合短头发

把头发留长就是为了再剪另一个短发哈哈

每个人都可以找到最适合自己的头发

无论长发还是短发

你现在剪得不好看

不代表你不适合

只不过你还没找到而已

所以不管别人的声音怎样

我都想再试一次

劝我的朋友连你剪了一定会后悔都说了haha

可我的回答是

我不剪才会后悔

所以

现在这个成果

我很满意=D

(my short hair view is available in my fb profile pic from 8/1/15 till dunno when yet xp)

从来不对我自己的选择后悔

无论是以前的 还是以后的

无论那选择多大 或多小

不能被自己的想象打倒 你总要试了才知道

=)

过后想要留怎样的头发

还没有决定

等现在这个头发看闷了也许又想换了

我相信以后的我也还想再试其它不一样的短发

Yea I am a short hair lover ❤

“短发不仅仅是一种造型，更是一种对艺术的追求，对生活的态度！”
http://zh.buzzhand.com/post_418506.html {word from article,may take a look if you like ;)}

我自己对短发的定义---活得潇洒！

"How can you recover from something like that?"

"You don't"

---The words from McGarret and Catherine after Chin lost his wife in Hawaii Five-0

Yea sometimes there is something happens in life you just can't get over it for such long time

It can be forever

It won't be forgotten

The only way towards pain like this

Is to accept it

Stay with it

and make your life goes on

信念

一直都会看张曼娟在副刊的特载

蛮喜欢她用写故事的方法让人看到不同爱情的想法

我选了这篇来share

很多人说要找真爱

那有没有人找至爱的?

真爱和至爱有差别吗?

怎么样才算至爱?

决定了，静静爱住一个人，就不会再改变了。
不管这条爱的道路行不行得通，不管这份爱有没有正名，算不算成立，
一个真正深情的人，会一直专注地爱下去的。

最近看到一句话

"很多人问是该选爱自己的人还是自己爱的人？其实很简单。
你强大，你就选自己爱的人，你不够强大，那就选爱自己的人了。"—— 赵格羽

怎么才算强大

不同人眼里 说不定答案可以很多种

对我而言

所谓强大

不过是能够坚持自己对爱情的信念

无谓任何情况 任何环境

Let me tell you

This is one of my faith

Too

About second choice

(Y)

But never your option

If someone love you to the most

How is it possible to make you a second choice?

Yeah if you are not the one for him

What is the reason to stay?

Are you ready for a begging love?

No love can stand for the time if it is not a healthy love

Well do you think begging is healthy in love?

No matter how much you love

If you are not the one

Please,

Just left

Yeah no blame,that's me

I just can't stand for it

I can't keep being your second choice, when you are always my first.

It's impossible to find someone who never hurts you,

so go for the one who's worth the pain

想找到一个永远不会伤害你的人是不可能的
所以就找一个值得你去承受这种痛的人吧