非诚勿扰有个男嘉宾的VCR说

人的一生要找到四个人

自己

最爱你的人

你最爱的人

和陪你走完一生的人

他希望可以找到三合为一的人

可我说

应该要找个四合为一的人

一个了解你就像你了解你自己一样

你是ta的最爱

ta是你的最爱

你们想一起走完一生的人

会找到这样的人

只要你相信

=)

忍得一时寂寞  迎得来美丽邂逅

宁可高傲到发霉  也不愿滥情到悲剧

#宁缺勿滥

有些东西 你可以做到

因为看了一套戏而写的一篇

因为不是想说戏的坏话故不写戏名了lol

 说的是对里头的人物的感想

也许所有的人的出现是为了让你找到你最爱的人是谁

但这一切 对你值得

他们呢?

他们都是人 一个个体

就因为你对自己的不确定

而跟着你团团转

留下令人心酸的故事

拜托你求求你好心点

还没放下一个人就不要去招惹另外一个人

不要说是他们来招惹你

你的态度呢?

态度有在就不会有多多故事

公平

绝对是你自己可以坚持的原则

对他人不公平的事

不做

同时知道方法避免

什么时候才可以接受新的对象?怎样对他们才会公平?

到你真正真正放下你之前那一个

不是你努力忘掉前任就可以

而是你把对ta的感情整理得够清楚了

你跟ta见面不会有别的感觉了

够到!

就算ta回来选你你也不会选ta了

这样 才会

对你公平

对你之前的公平

对你未来的公平

他们不应该要承受任何因为你的过去没整理好带来的伤害

一个人给你完整的爱

如果你给不回

那就一点都不要给

就当朋友 没有暧昧

选你所爱

爱你所选

会后悔就不要选!

让自己沉淀也好 孤单也罢

至少让自己的决定没有冲动 没有草率

选了  就没有后悔

对你自己的每个选择负责

对你自己负责
自己选择的路 跪着也要走完!

重整

FACEBOOK

Done deleting almost...I think nearly 100 people in facebook ba, haha

I deleted the people I don't know, maybe never appear in the sight also

I keep those at least I know who they are, even though only have one sight in school

Yea if we actually do know each other but i had unfriend you

Maybe you are inactive or too few detail in your profile

Maybe I just simply forget who you are, haha

If like that really sorry about that

Sure you can add me one more time if you like :p

Maybe people will say, this is facebook, what for?

Yea but this is my facebook, my social place, my life

I decide what form I want it to be

In future there is more and more people will join your life

So I am not going to keep those people I don't even know who they are

I don't need to get news from this way

If I need any news, I can go to buy for a newspaper :p

Maybe I am little bit too strict

Yea but this is me

Exactly me

Goh Zhi Yun

No other body else

TWITTER

Okay here is my private site
I can tweet EVERYTHING
So it is not going to open to EVERYONE
haha

I want to say something to my pre-followers
Most of you got favourite my things also,some even can say very frequent
I am really sorry that I chose this way
And really appreciate you guys had accompanied me for such long time
Really really paiseh :(
To be fair, I also unfollow you guys
Sorry to make you guys lose one follower also haha
I will follow you all in a different way kay?haha
Hope you guys can understand :(

And other friends, if you feel you are close enough with me
If you like, you can come to follow me
But the decision still on me, need to say it first, sorry :p
If I no approve you, don't be sad
It's not your problem, it's mine
I'm just can't get through some part of myself, haha
When I feel we are closer in future
Then sure I will approve you
That's all :)


Hmm going to open
Instagram
Maybe as my life's moment recording album haha
And will welcome the friends :D

Snapchat
Someone had recommended to me long time before, haha
Till now haven't open yet :p
Coming soon hehe



人生 是需要整理的
=)

Bless them

#Notimetowaste

WHAT you want, WHAT you do

For friends(we are getting apart)

http://youtu.be/pKqX04Xd8nc
or http://tw.gigacircle.com/1352537-1

Today have the mood and search back this video

erm..ignore the video title and just watch it silently :p

我们都正在经历着=')
Don't say goodbye with sad tears
Should be blessed tears

I would like to give a wish

A whole-hearted wish

Whenever we reach the age

Having our own route

different life

Wish that

The willing for us to meet each other

will be all the same

=D

"How can you recover from something like that?"

"You don't"

---The words from McGarret and Catherine after Chin lost his wife in Hawaii Five-0

Yea sometimes there is something happens in life you just can't get over it for such long time

It can be forever

It won't be forgotten

The only way towards pain like this

Is to accept it

Stay with it

and make your life goes on

信念

一直都会看张曼娟在副刊的特载

蛮喜欢她用写故事的方法让人看到不同爱情的想法

我选了这篇来share

很多人说要找真爱

那有没有人找至爱的?

真爱和至爱有差别吗?

怎么样才算至爱?

决定了，静静爱住一个人，就不会再改变了。
不管这条爱的道路行不行得通，不管这份爱有没有正名，算不算成立，
一个真正深情的人，会一直专注地爱下去的。

最近看到一句话

"很多人问是该选爱自己的人还是自己爱的人？其实很简单。
你强大，你就选自己爱的人，你不够强大，那就选爱自己的人了。"—— 赵格羽

怎么才算强大

不同人眼里 说不定答案可以很多种

对我而言

所谓强大

不过是能够坚持自己对爱情的信念

无谓任何情况 任何环境

Let me tell you

This is one of my faith

Too

等一个人咖啡 电影

有多少人能遇见同时冒出香肠和豆花的人?

太多人遇见的只冒出香肠

也太多人遇见的只冒出豆花

总之呢

要遇见同时相爱的人太难得

所以如果遇见

请把握

如果遇见

请珍惜

缘分 得来不易

"爱情 需要的巧合 比妳想象中的还多"

只有到后来
你看回去所有的细节
才会知道发生的每一件事
都是让你们走在一起的原因

"爱情 不谈愧疚"

是的
既然是爱情
怎么公平呢
既然你选择爱了
就接受它带给你的一切
好的和坏的



"这个世界上 每个人 都在等一个人"
你的
是什么样的等待?


"『等待』一詞乍聽之下會被認為是消極、放棄的。
但對我而言，之所以會選擇等待，
便是因為對某人或某事有所偏執，才會放不下，
那是有意識地選擇，而非毫無作為的。"

 ---專訪《等一個人咖啡》導演江金霖 
(http://mag.cnyes.com/Content/20140827/69A8F384EEDD47DC9E284213736B7015.shtml)


=)

时生

时生是一个人名

就是这本书里的那个孩子

时间的时  生命的生

一本好书可以把一个人拉向正途

好久没这样看书了

一看就停不下来的那种
一不小心就看到了半夜4点哈哈
真的很久没有一本书可以这样了

没有什么需要猜的情节
就是他说 你听
没想像过故事是这样子发展
所以陷下去了

里头的故事
不说真不真实
它要带出的讯息
我想是淋漓尽致的表达出来了
这个故事
包含了太多人的人生故事

很正能量 (Y)

像简介里说的
宫本夫妇是经过了多少考虑而决定赋予时生生命
对我来说
来到这世上你才能感受这一切
决不会后悔
愿意保留生命是一件很崇高的事

"或许是借助了来自未来的灵魂之力，人类才创造了历史 "
所有的事
都是注定好的
一个影响另一个
你相信吗?

面对未来的迷惘时
希望会记得来看看这句
"人不论在什么时候都会感受到未来。无论是怎样短暂的一个瞬间。
未来不仅仅是明天。未来在人心中。 "
err...好像要看过才能深刻明白哈哈

有一个对话有点被敲醒的感觉
"悲观也没用，发给你什么牌，你就只能尽量打好它"
"我觉得发给你的牌不算太坏"

不知道为什么

看了这本书真的感到很多positive

no wasting time no emo

每次emo就想想这本书带来的震撼

是时候开始拼到全力了

Lucy

The only thing I longing in the movie Lucy

Is that we can posses the ability to memorize things like that

I would like to memorize all the little moment in my life

All the feeling that should be preserved well

But not washed out by time

I wish I can remember all the detail of those precious moment

='( 

好久不见 James杨永聪

Yeah第一次看到james是在星光大道

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=k22AUOE6Lc4

哎哟陶子实在是很好笑叻xD

那时就想找几首他唱的来share一下了

声音很特别

可是在星光唱的好像是怪怪的歌-.-

然后在fb看到一个link

看到很像是我认识的那个james就按进去看

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gEdEG_t1fKM

https://www.facebook.com/photo.php?v=718802418184547

#IMissYou #But #iKnow #YouDoesnt

(Y)

所以说很多歌是看谁唱才懂那首歌的意思

喜欢这个video

很有感情

James看起来是红了woohoo

About second choice

(Y)

But never your option

If someone love you to the most

How is it possible to make you a second choice?

Yeah if you are not the one for him

What is the reason to stay?

Are you ready for a begging love?

No love can stand for the time if it is not a healthy love

Well do you think begging is healthy in love?

No matter how much you love

If you are not the one

Please,

Just left

Yeah no blame,that's me

I just can't stand for it

I can't keep being your second choice, when you are always my first.

细节

其实也不懂要写什么东西的这篇

只是觉得生活里的我们其实没有注意很多在身边正在发生的事

有的时候  身边的人的故事发生完了

都不见得有人发现有这个故事的存在

然后  听到这个故事的蛛丝马迹

没敢相信它的发生

也会直接说  不可能啦 哪里可能

其实很多东西

注意细节

拼凑细节

你会看到别人没有看到的东西

那些细节 可以是从不同的人得来的

毕竟一个人的生活不可能只包含一个人

观察

推理

不是只有侦探能做的

这些东西

是应该应用在我们的生活上的

当身边的人都有一段距离

你要怎么关心你没有参与的生活?

你要怎样知道你朋友是不是在不好的状态?

其实很多时候

我们都不知道

"When I've eliminated the impossible, 

whatever remains,

 no matter how mad it might seem, 

must be the truth."

 ---Sherlock Holmes

This is what Sherlock had taught me

and I had proven

 

等一个人咖啡 :D

在网上看到这电影在拍着啦

看到了演阿不思的演员

---赞啦

我觉得她能演出阿不思的灵魂

顺便提一句，阿不思不是主角啦，哈哈哈哈哈

但这个故事里的每个人都有很特别的性格

这是我看的九把刀的第一本书吧

蛮喜欢九把刀拍戏的

毕竟他是原创，会坚持去找到最符合小说里的角色气质的人

不管那个演员红不红

重要的是那故事的感觉不能跑

所以就等着这电影上映吧

有机会能去看一定会看的

希望不要在五月上映就好/.\

推荐大家去看呗

很不错的一个故事

=)

Hey see what I had found :p

http://www.bbc.co.uk/programmes/b018ttws/features/disclaimer

So happy when I found there is a real blog of john

Of course it was only related to the movie

But it is what I wanted to find

It's great

You can found the blog match to their life

You can see what you couldn't find in movie

And the first time I decided to view the blog thoroughgoing

I need to find a dictionary, that's my conclusion lol

And hence, it will be my new english space

By the way, it was united kingdom english too

haha

=D

Sherlock Holmes

New Sherlock. Season 2. 1st episode

The code: I'm SHER locked        

The message: Goodbye, Mr Holmes

And he said: When I say run,run

Every movie of Sherlock must have the character of Irene Adler
Same as the story of original book
Irene is mystery
And most movie must put on effect of  relationship of Irene and Holmes

When he change his hair back,can't recognize him :p
He is sometime so stupid,not very fulfill the real Sherlock
But he is clever,undeniable
Quick too
And funny

Alright, Sherlock and John Watson
The movie always makes them very like
Hmm,not like friend only xp



Love its music
So match the detective background
Quite a nice movie
Addicted

=D